Being open about your sexual desire while respecting other’s fears and discomforts is so difficult. I hate that our patriarchal society generates so much sexual violence and repression that people feel triggered or threatened by the mention or expression of sex. I hate thinking that I could make someone feel threatened or pressured by what I mean as an act of love, and that even worse, that I likely have.
It makes me wish sometimes that I had no sexual drive at all.
"that was my nickname in college" is more funny than "that’s what she said"
In fact the former is funny and the latter is not.
GET WITH IT, don’t try to be funny and make yourself a fool.